I didn't wake up this morning for my husband to cater to my needs or to speak my love language... I woke up with the intent of loving him. Period!
If I only woke up each day for my husband to meet my needs, then he gets to determine how I feel that day and I'm only doing as good as he is treating me.
The truth is, I'm doing as good as God is, who lives inside of me, and He is stable!
It is the Lord, in me, who is established in Love. God doesn't need me to love Him, He flourishes in loving me!
So then why would I "need" love from my husband? I flourish in loving him!
Not because my husband loves me back but because I'm rooted and grounded in Love!